Do you ever catch yourself dwelling on the things you wish you could do better while overlooking the talents and abilities you already possess? I have experienced this cycle over and over again. It’s a common struggle for many of us, but how we approach these thoughts can significantly impact our personal and spiritual development. While some may continue to fixate on their perceived shortcomings, others redirect their focus towards maximizing their strengths—a mindset shift with profound implications for growth and self-esteem. I recently chose the latter.

Scripture encourages us to steward our talents wisely, acknowledging and utilizing the gifts bestowed upon us by God. In Matthew 25:14-30, the Parable of the Talents illustrates the importance of investing and multiplying the abilities we’ve been entrusted with rather than burying them in fear or inadequacy. By recognizing and cultivating what we excel at, we honor God’s divine endowment and contribute meaningfully to His kingdom. Have you identified what you are good at?

So, instead of fixating on what we can’t do, let’s redirect our attention to what we excel at and strive to refine those skills even further. Perhaps you’re not a master chef in preparing elaborate dinners, but if you can craft a delectable baked cheesecake, let that become your signature dish. Similarly, if your green thumb struggles to yield ripe tomatoes but flourishes in nurturing vibrant flowers, embrace your knack for gardening and cultivate a stunning floral sanctuary. Explore what you are good at.

This shift in perspective not only elevates our sense of self-worth but also fosters a positive internal dialogue. Often, our self-talk can be riddled with doubt and negativity, drowning out the affirmations of others. Yet, by concentrating on honing our strengths, we invite a chorus of positive affirmations into our inner dialogue, bolstering our confidence and self-esteem. Philippians 4:8 urges us,

"Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things."

I tell you one thing: thinking about who God is, who good says I am, and all things good has drastically changed my life! It’s crucial to take intentional moments to revel in and appreciate our areas of proficiency, acknowledging the unique talents and gifts that set us apart. Seeking input from loved ones can provide valuable insights into our strengths and passions, guiding us toward areas where we can excel. By investing our time and energy into refining our skills, we not only enhance our abilities but also derive a deep sense of pleasure and accomplishment from our achievements.

Moreover, learning to accept praise and appreciation for our talents graciously is an essential aspect of cultivating a positive self-image. Receive the good and pleasure in your life with a welcoming and loving spirit. Just as we readily acknowledge commendation in professional settings, we should extend the same openness and gratitude towards affirmations of our endeavors. Proverbs 15:23 reminds us,

"A person finds joy in giving an apt reply—and how good is a timely word!"

While it may initially feel uncomfortable, embracing praise for our achievements with sincerity and gratitude is an essential step toward developing a solid and healthy self-image. By recognizing and celebrating our successes, we affirm our worth and value as individuals created in the image of God. As we continue to nurture and refine our talents, may we do so with humility, gratitude, love, and a steadfast commitment to honoring the gifts entrusted to us.

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